Once the thrill of purchasing is over what is left?I'll tell you what's left a unsatisfied moody wife or husband. What is a person to do ? This will calm anyone's temper a home cooked meal& massage ,nurture,with acts of kindness.Even the most aggressive have to eat and who doesn't like massage.
Recommendation for the aggressive one in your life:
1)3candel's :place a candle in room,kitchen,bathroom.
2)massage oil:place small drop on hand to warm oil(rub hands together causing friction to warm oil or squirt it on body cold if you don't care for your lovers comfort.
3)home cooked meal :any meal as long as you make it.boil or bake ,If you don't know how to cook.(Guaranteed success)
If your loved one falls asleep ,pat yourself on the back and high five each other once the non aggressor wakes up.You've succeeded on calming the mood.
The simplest of things can show someone how much you care&love them .Smile not everything must involve sex .Sex is only a bonus .